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Getting physical can get quite nerve wracking for both men and women. Learn to use a lot of physical games in order to seduce. Things like reading the future in the palm or kissing the hands, or showing magic tricks with hands, are all a part of the game. The reason is that women are very uncomfortable with the physical touch within a few minutes of the first date. So by initiating these games, you are creating an opportunity to touch the girls so that they can get used to you.
Women don’t want to be labeled as cheap and easy going by men. They have a “slut complex”. This means that they probably think that if they agree to sleep with a guy right on the first date, then they be labeled as a “slut”. The woman knows what the end is really going to be but they still feel the need to reject you at first. Both of you want the same thing, but don’t necessarily want to say it out aloud. These are some of the small mind games that women are prone to playing.
Start with palm reading. Before you establish any physical contact with her, ensure that you have won her trust and she is relaxed. You don’t need to be an expert palm reader or anything of that kind. Just remember some astrological mumbo jumbo and say those words to her. Like “Your boss will give an important assignment to test your credentials in the coming week”. This is quite a general statement but will definitely get her thinking and she will want to know more about herself. Just say something that will please her. Look at her body language and rely on the previous conversations that you have had. You would know by now, what she would like to hear. Say what she expects you to say.
Ask her to close her eyes and then simply plant a small peck on her cheek or her neck. If she reacts well and you can feel her warming up to you, then go ahead. If not, then you should start by doing another round of some other conversation where she can tell you some more details about herself. Let’s assume that she has reacted warmly to your kiss and you can also feel the tension and urge inside her.
Now you can probably place your arms around her and touch her thigh a bit. Go slowly when you want to initiate physical contact. Don’t just jump the line and go all for it. It can be an awkward situation for both of you. Many a times, she might stop dead in her tracks. That’s because she would think that this is not how it should have happened. Her conscience would probably tell her not to go all out on the first date.
Remain calm and compose yourself. Pretend as if nothing has happened and then again start from where you left of. You will see that with passing of time, she will become more relaxed and respond better to you.
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