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Psychology plays a major part in seduction. It is your beliefs and strengths that will lead you to the victory. If aren’t sure about your own motives, believes, strengths and weaknesses then you won’t be successful in any sphere of life, leave alone seduction. Your beliefs and motivation are built through what psychologists call ‘clinical psychology’. What you perceive and then act upon is known as social psychology.
Beliefs And Motivation Can Be Changed
The first thing to understand is that all beliefs and motivation can be changed. Of course they aren’t going to be changed overnight. You have to make a conscious effort to change the perceived notions. Even if you have had negative experiences with women, you can still change the way that women perceive you.
If you were rejected in high school, it doesn’t mean that you would be rejected all through your life. Remember Charlie Chaplin, Brad Pitt, Jack Nicholsen and many others were not great lookers and early in their life met with stiff opposition and problems. This included women problems as well but they never gave up. With a positive streak they went head in their lives. Later in their lives, they got the women that they wanted.
Reframe Your Beliefs And Motivation
Acknowledge the fact that you have certain inherent deficiencies. But remember that you have certain qualities too so you should work on those great qualities. When you do work on your qualities then you become more confident. The confidence transforms into a ‘can do’ attitude. With confidence, comes the power to change and do your work.
When you have a positive attitude, acknowledge your qualities and your defeat, have power, and then your body language will automatically show the difference. With just a single glance, women would want to talk to you and would vie to get your attention. A confident and a powerful man is a great turn on for women. They are happy to be associated with such men as they can take care of them
Women Are Emotional Creatures
Deep down, they like to be loved and cared for. They need to be protected and like to have a man in charge who can give them all that they require. Once you have the attention of women, go for the one that you would like to have. Use reverse psychology and don’t pay her too much attention. She will then seek out your attention thus, giving the competition a tough fight. Use your body language and your voice to draw her out but remember that you can’t rush a woman. If you rush her, then she might get scared and run away. I am sure you do not wish to scare her away. You would prefer that she stays with you.
The slight touch comes later in the seduction game. But if she is interested in you, then she won’t shy away or jerk you away. If a woman jerks your hand or remains cold to your touch then she is definitely not interested. Break of the connection rather than continuing to pursue her, else you will be stuck in a no win situation. Remember don’t ram her like a Formula 1 car but take her gently like an old Bentley.
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