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If you walked up to an attractive girl and suddenly start talking to her, you would be viewed with complete suspicion. In fact, you just might be dumped even before you open your mouth. The matter is made worse if you approach a bunch of girls. In all probability, if they think you are up to something they might just beat you up. Then how are you going to approach the set of girls and possibly even seduce one?
You need a technique or some system that makes you seem like a harmless guy who just wants to chat with them. They should never feel that you are invading their space. You have to make the girls feel completely comfortable with you. Once you make the girls feel comfortable, you can actually go ahead and seduce them. Remember if you are gauging and constantly measuring the girls up, the girls are pretty much doing the same thing to you.
The trick is to let go of their inhibitions within the first 10 minutes. If you have heir attention within that time frame then you never need to feel the loss again. You will have the rare gift of seducing women with your conversational skills and getting the women of your dreams.
Come up with a reason to talk to them. You have to make them understand that your time, effort and work are as important as theirs. This, my friend, is what is known as reverse psychology which you can use to get and seduce the girls. You should pretend that you are not really interested in them and that you have some work or whatever it is which you have to get back to. Women will then try to vie for your attention. If you give them too much of your attention then they might not want you so try not to look extremely interested in them. On the other hand, if you do not pay proper attention to them then they would want to get the attention from you. Women are wired differently and men should be aware of that.
This “limited time’ or ‘I don’t care’ attitude works every time with girls. This tells them that you are not some desperate guy but are a responsible adult who will surely take care of them. Women want someone they can look up to and like to be controlled. If you show them, that you are capable of taking care of them then they can be putty in your hands. They can be easily molded to your liking.
When a particular girl likes you and chats with you, then you can go into the entire gamut of taking down her numbers and then calling her up later. Let her call you after the first call. In this way, her interest will be in you. If you go after her, like a lost puppy, then her interest may wane in you. You can’t let this situation happen to you under any circumstance.
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